About Staying Negative

Staying Negative aims to emotionally engage, inspire and facilitate imagination in sexual health practices. The campaign profiles the real life stories of gay, bisexual and trans men who have sex with men (MSM). Men talk about all aspects of their life from coming out, relationships, sexuality and a broad range of other topics. While HIV and safe sex is an important part of all stories, it is not the exclusive focus.

Prior HIV prevention campaigns have traditionally focused on providing gay men with information that will encourage them to adopt safe sex behaviours. In reality, safe sex practices are influenced by a whole range of environmental and cultural factors. The campaign also provides an opportunity for HIV positive men to talk about their lives and discuss how their strategies to staying HIV negative were not successful. We understand that there is more than one way practice safe sex and adopt healthcare seeking behaviours, so let's be creative about it!

There are no real criteria for participants other than that they are MSM and happy to have their stories appear as part of the campaign. In addition to the personal stories, the website provides information on HIV/AIDS, sexual health, relationships and broad of the other relevant topics including domestic violence, drugs and alcohol and depression.

108 stories
I think he knew, even when we fucked. Why else would he insist, twice, that I had the test?
Darren V

Read the Story

I'd been using meth & having bareback sex all the time. I must be positive too, but I felt nothing.
Ben J

Read the Story

I asked God for death because I’d rather that than face what I had to.
Zen

Read the Story

I found comfort in Mormonism.
Josh

Read the Story

When I was 17, I decided to transition into a male
Kai

Read the Story

Staying Negative features the personal stories of everyday gay and bisexual men, including trans men, both HIV-negative and HIV-positive --- told by the men who live it!

Tell us your story

Tell us your story

×

Come and tell us your story! We would love to hear from you! If you want to find out a little more about how it all works, give Jessie a call at VAC on (03) 9865 6700, or email staying.negative@vac.org.au